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this is the last posti could find on the forum. Im bringing it up from the depths of cyberland to see if the reactions are still the same.

Yep.

Looking back upon my initial responses, I would say yes. I feel pretty close to the same as I did back then.

Cybering is probably not a sign of a healthy relationship.

Love is one of the strongest emotions a human can feel and is not that different to hate in its strength. Sex is one of the strongest physical feelings a person can have and it can often blind a person to the difference between lust and love. How can you effectivly tell a story of tragedy without one or the other without losing some of its substanence.

If it is used as a story telling means then it can be a powerful tool. In terms of a passtime as long as its done between consenting adults I have no quarrel with it. This is a problem with the internet as you can not be certain of who you are engaging with.

To one person a fetish is erotic, to another its horrific. This is part of human nature and so all I can say is: each to his own.

I haven't changed my opinion, not a jot.

Wow. This has been around a while. I feel the same. IT is nasty.

ok now that we have all opions on the matter th en and now.. we can let the subject drop.

Uuuummm...I would like to add a little addition to my opinion...I said "Cybering is not a sign of a healthy relationship."

But what I should have said is "Cybering behind your significant others back is not a sign of a healthy relationship."